Maybe I am a romantic but I ....lolo.....I just believe that a Man should pursue a Woman. That he should find her and let her know his interest. It lets a Woman know that he understands and acknowledges her worth. lol


I believe if a Woman allows a Man to pursue her, it will prove to him how much he is interested as well as makes her to understand her worth.  


There is always reasons for the structure of dating. 


Here is a quote I seen that explains the structure.
"Marriage isnt just an agreement between two people to live life together. Marriage is a God-ordained institution that helps us understand love and unity. When two people are married, they become one spiritually, emotionally and physically. Notice the progression Spiritually and Emotionally during courtship and Physically at marriage. Foundation is everything!!!!! By: Marvin Sapp


When you are able to blend and share spiritually, then you can allow your emotions to become involved.  Then if it is right you marry then to become one physically.

God has a divine plan.