When you understand that God is not against you but doing what is best for you, no matter what you are facing, you can know that the outcome is going to be good.
You can feel like you are going to bleed to death inside, hurting and God will send someone to rush you to the greatest spiritual hospital....God's presence. God will nurture life back to your bleeding soul. He will hold you and rock you in his presence until peace comes.
They say it is the darkest just before the dawn. I believe it is because God knows that in the dark of our life we will finally have't to trust him completely. We no longer will be able to direct our courses.
We often trust God with our money. We trust God with provisions. We trust God with our spirituality, but often...we don't trust him with our hearts. It is because we have been hurt so, and are still trying to guard our hearts and think we know whats best. It is in some of the darkest times that God will take charge and bring you to the brightest places your life has ever been.
I pray that in the darkness of your lives, for God to direct you, speak to you, bring peace to you as he guides you to a brighter day. All the confusion, will surrender to day light, and clarity will come forth. God is going to shine his light on you and the path he wants you to take.