It is so easy through facebook, twitter, texting, emails, and blogs....to misunderstand what a person is really saying. Sometimes the intent gets lost. I do believe that if you don't really know a person you cannot truly grasp where their minds are coming from.
Until you know a person's story, what they have walked through it is so hard to know why they do what they do, or say what they say. We all have what I call land mines. They are emotional areas that are sensitive and when stepped on hit a persons nerve and causes them to react in ways that most people wouldn't.
Once you know a persons land mines, you can, out of love, learn to avoid them. Learn how to help that person find healing in those areas. It is with alot of communication that one starts to grasp the totality of a person's mind, heart, and soul.
Face to face talking is the best. Something of emotions get lost in all the technology. So my advice, is this. Don't allow any for of technology to shape your true opinion of someone. It is when you meet them face to face, talk face to face , that you are able to discern, and learn who they really are.
Until you know a person's story, what they have walked through it is so hard to know why they do what they do, or say what they say. We all have what I call land mines. They are emotional areas that are sensitive and when stepped on hit a persons nerve and causes them to react in ways that most people wouldn't.
Once you know a persons land mines, you can, out of love, learn to avoid them. Learn how to help that person find healing in those areas. It is with alot of communication that one starts to grasp the totality of a person's mind, heart, and soul.
Face to face talking is the best. Something of emotions get lost in all the technology. So my advice, is this. Don't allow any for of technology to shape your true opinion of someone. It is when you meet them face to face, talk face to face , that you are able to discern, and learn who they really are.
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